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October 2008 
Unrequited Love
Bahamut
So there's this girl at my school I like. I think I love her, but all year I've been trying to avoid her. I don't want to start a relationship with her when I've only got so long to stay in Massachusetts. But lately I haven't been able to get her off my mind. Every other thought I think is about her. Every time I listen to music I think about her. There's one song I listen to called That's All by Genesis. The chorus in the song that goes:
"But I love you, more than I wanted to. There's no point in trying to pretend.
There is no one who, makes me feel like you do."
This applies to me here. I do love her, and I don't want to. I have been pretending I don't. I've tried to fool myself into thinking I don't care for her by staying away all year. But it hasn't worked. I still think about her and want to be around her. She's nice, pretty, and perfect. But I've only got a few days left of school. I'm at a loss. Which option do I choose? Go and try for a fleeting daydream or keep letting it be and stay in pain? I just don't know which path to choose.
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“It is better to love and lost then to never love at all”
Love is a difficult thing at times. I have never been in love so I can't help you out a lot. The only thing I can say is what is in my mind, only you know what you think is right. Its better you tell her your feelings, you have nothing to lose. Perhaps something good will occur when you confess, after all you really don't want to lye in bed at night and think “What if…?”
Having regrets in life isn't very good, don't regret not telling her how you feel! Who knows, perhaps she likes you, maybe she will be the person you spend with your entire life, someone you can be truly happy with. Do you want to lose someone like that? Think about it, there's really nothing for you to lose. In the end you will be able to express you feelings that you have long with held, and in the you will be able to be proud of your self. That's always a good thing. Remember, no regrets!