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October 2008 
What were you thinking about last night?
Posted on Aug 28th, 2008
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Bahamut
Bahamut
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for August 26, 2008:
I was thinking about an argument I had with my girlfriend. We got on the subject of our future plans. She said she wanted to stay in Massachusetts and have two kids some day when we're married and that she's going to get me to go with her to church. I said I wanted to stay in Vermont because I like it up here and that I do not intend to have kids ever. I can put up with the church if I really have to, but that's not the point. She started yelling at me because I said I didn't want to have kids and when I tried to explain that I would be the worst father in the world it didn't help things. I know I'm only in college and the last thing I need right now is a kid, but I couldn't get over the scolding she gave to me. So I spent last night pondering over the things she said and I'll probably be doing the same thing tonight. I never realized how deep iit is to think about something like this, but It's something i'll have to do eventually. Now I don't know what will happen and I'm just really confused.
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Ohhh, it's difficult when women start to nag like that… If you feel like you're not ready to have kids then you shouldn't really. But then people change.. You might start feeling different about it in a few years. Because a couple of years before I couldn't ever imagine myself getting married or even wanting to have children, well, and now I got married and considering that maybe one day, say in about 7 years I will have a child. It's better if you follow your heart in everything, so that you don't regret it later.